Wednesday, May 25, 2016

A Meditation on Psalm 19

All the world is shouting the glory of the Lord: from the flowers of the fields, to the snow of the mountains.

          
The heavens display all God’s good work for all to see from every corner of our world.

We scorn laws in our daily lives as restrictions; as intrusions keeping us away from our freedoms.

The law of the Lord, though is perfect.  The rituals of the Lord; the prayers of our days, the festivals of our lives are all reminders of the ways the Lord has been just and redeemed us in the past.

Keeping the law of the Lord through prayer, and meditation is sweeter than honey to us, dear God.

Oh Christ, my rock and redeemer, let the meditations of our hearts that are the rituals of our days, be acceptable to you, O Lord.

We pray this, in Jesus’ name.  Amen.  

Thursday, February 4, 2016

Children in Worship, Round 2

On Palm Sunday last year I wrote a post about children in worship, because many articles had been making the rounds touting their opinions one way or the other.  While the author of those articles raised some good points, my reasoning for having children experience worship is multivalent, and not just about the "theology" and the Jesus stuff, as we sometimes call it.

I decided, since many articles have started to make the rounds again with Lent almost upon us to amend my original post, and add another piece I have been reflecting on, #9 LITURGY. 

My experience as a child in church comes from belonging to a small intergenerational church filled with supportive adults who became family.  My context is not everyone's context, but that is the point of view I am writing from.

As I noted above, some of these things just helped my formation as a human being.  

Things I Learned Staying In Worship 
(and I believe children can still learn today...)

1. PATIENCE
Worship is filled with reflection and quiet times, listening to others, and a lot of time that is essentially not about YOU.  That practice in and of itself teaches patience and in our device and screen driven age fights against the loss of our attention spans. The fruit of the spirit is...

2. READING
No kidding.  The bulletin, the hymnal, and the corporate prayers are scaffolded reading instruction every Sunday, without the child knowing it.  You cannot be a literate Christian without being able to read and interpret the Bible on your own.  Critical readers are in short supply, and this skill is KEY to their success in the church and in LIFE.  

3. MUSIC
I learned to read music in church from the hymnal.  I learned to love music in worship.  The first time I sang in front of people was in church.  Hymns also present theology in repetitive ways that stay in our minds and hearts in ways we may not realize until we mature.

4. ACCEPTANCE
Everyone at my home church did not act the same, talk the same, dress the same.  I came to find out as an adolescent that some of the adults in my church had developmental disabilities.  As a child I didn't really care about that.  They were part of my church family, and no one treated them differently so neither did I.  Talk about the Gospel without words.  Actions are so important to children, and they notice them even when we think they aren't.

5. THEOLOGY
Yes, really.  While this came a little later than toddlerhood, I can still remember sermons preached when I was a child, and not just children's sermons.  They are vague, but certainly formational.  

6. DIVERSITY of LEADERSHIP
In my home church everyone read scripture (all genders) and we had male and female pastors during my childhood.  This sent me the subliminal message that the pulpit was open to me from the time I was aware of that being an option.  Children notice these things, and here I am 25 years later getting an M.Div. at Princeton Theological Seminary.  In one of my classes last semester a professor had those of us who had a female pastor as our only pastor (solo) or head of staff during some time as a child/teenager stand on one side of the room, and everyone else stand on the other side.  4 of us out of 60 stood on the female pastor side.  That is powerful.  The messages our children see in the leadership of the church matter.  Whether or not we offer them leadership roles as children matter.

7. HOW to PRAY
My home church had corporate Prayers of the People where anyone could raise Joys and Concerns.  The pastors would turn those into the Pastoral Prayer.  While prayer is personal, it was a starting place of "how to pray" on my own.  These examples have made me comfortable with extemporaneous prayer when leading worship and creating prayers on the spot in ways I wouldn't have been if they weren't "seeped into my soul" from childhood.  

8. THE LORD's PRAYER and the NICENE CREED
Memorized, not on purpose, just from being in worship.

9. LITURGY
Recently I served as pulpit supply preacher at a church that had a "snafu" with their copier, had no bulletins for the those in the congregation (which was small) and I found out ten minutes before the service that I needed to come up with liturgy that was responsive on the spot.  The liturgy that had been imbedded in my mind and heart and the scripture passages I knew from childhood could be responsive without a bulletin served me well that Sunday.  

What did you learn from being in worship as a child?

Friday, January 1, 2016

2016 Resolutions



2015 was not the best year for me and Steve.  Since this post is about moving forward, we can leave it at that.  

So for 2016, our resolutions, our wishes, our hopes, and dreams are...

1. Work passionately on our vocations through our jobs (business) and our schooling 
2. Make time for worship, allowing for reflection, lament, and gratitude
3. Make our health a priority in balanced, sustainable, and meaningful ways
4. Focus less on possessions and more on experiences with family and friends
       (this means getting rid of stuff and buying less stuff)

I know all the statistics about people very rarely "keeping" their resolutions, but we were intentional in creating resolutions that we can work on all year, and if we "fall off the wagon" we can get right back on.  They are all things that will be goals for the rest of our lives (we believe), so why not start now?  They won't cease to be important to us at the end of 2016.

What are your hopes and dreams for the New Year?

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Welcome To Church



church in the U.K. posted this sign on their door; click here for the full text.  Would your church welcome all?  How would some of the people listed in their welcome sign feel coming to your congregation's home this Advent and Christmas season?

Monday, December 14, 2015

Love Is All Around

Preaching lately seems like a fools errand to me.  The terror attacks in San Bernadino, the fear that is being incited in us on purpose by the political debate, and tragedies in the United States and around the world too numerous to name weigh heavily on our hearts, and make words seem useless.  

In Paul’s letter to the Romans, chapter 12, verse 21, he notes: "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."

The enormity of the tragedy around us seems insurmountable, like nothing we could do would make a difference.  There is so much evil in the world, and in those who want us to be afraid of it, how can we possibly heal that?  I have learned through my own losses that asking why is not the answer, but asking who – WHO is walking with you through your pain and how are you supporting one another together – is the question to ask to find peace and healing.  

Karl Paulnack is a former professor at Boston Conservatory of Music, and now Dean of the Ithaca College School of Music.  In September 2014 he gave a welcome address  at Boston Conservatory addressing the power of music to bring people together and help them heal:

In September of 2001 I was a resident of Manhattan. On the morning of September 12, 2001 I reached a new understanding of my art and its relationship to the world. I sat down at the piano that morning at 10 AM to practice as was my daily routine; I did it by force of habit, without thinking about it. I lifted the cover on the keyboard, and opened my music, and put my hands on the keys and took my hands off the keys. And I sat there and thought, does this even matter? Isn't this completely irrelevant? Playing the piano right now, given what happened in this city yesterday, seems silly, absurd, irreverent, pointless. Why am I here? What place has a musician in this moment in time? Who needs a piano player right now? I was completely lost.  And then I, along with the rest of New York, went through the journey of getting through that week. I did not play the piano that day, and in fact I contemplated briefly whether I would ever want to play the piano again. And then I observed how we got through the day. 

At least in my neighborhood, we didn't shoot hoops or play Scrabble. We didn't play cards to pass the time, we didn't watch TV, we didn't shop, we most certainly did not go to the mall. The first organized activity that I saw in New York, on the very evening of September 11th, was singing. People sang. People sang around fire houses, people sang "We Shall Overcome". Lots of people sang America the Beautiful. The first organized public event that I remember was the Brahms Requiem, later that week, at Lincoln Center, with the New York Philharmonic. The first organized public expression of grief, our first communal response to that historic event, was a concert. That was the beginning of a sense that life might go on.

The people of New York City didn’t return evil with evil – they sang, they cared, they loved one another, they embraced one another.  God’s call for us today is to overcome the evil in the world with love – love for our family, neighbors and the strangers around us.

As you’re watching the news and considering all the evil in the world – conflicts in Israel/Palestine, Beirut, and Syria, the terror attack in San Bernadino, and gun violence in hundreds of cities across the country to numerous to name, lets not shake our heads in futility thinking that we cannot make a difference.  It is God’s call for us to love and share for people in need, whether they are mourning for someone they lost in a terror attack, or if they live down the road from us and don’t have enough food to feed their family this week (a different kind of terror all its own).  Be there for friends who are grieving and mourning.  Just BE with them, and share your hospitality and care.  The reason we meet as a church and place such importance on being together as a community is that we ARE futile alone.  TOGETHER, as Christians we are stronger, and more able to create change and spread God’s love.  We could all pray alone at home, and worship God alone in our kitchens and our backyards but to be Christians caring for the Lord’s people in need, and mourning with those who mourn TOGETHER we are stronger, and TOGETHER we make a difference.  Just like the assembled masses of people in New York City singing together the evening of 9/11, alone you would have felt impossibly overwhelmed, but together they mourned, they cried, they worshipped and were together.

I always found it interesting that certain groups of fundamental Christians protested the Harry Potter series by J.K. Rowling.  They insisted it promoted witchcraft and evil.  I am certain though, that they have never actually read the books because Ms. Rowling actually based the series on, not only other classic literature like works by C.S. Lewis, Shakespeare and others, but on the Bible and Christ’s love in sacrificing himself for us.  The central theme of the books is that Harry Potter’s mother, Lily sacrificed herself to save him from the villain therefore giving him a power the evil villain could never have – the power of love.  Throughout the series Harry’s mentor Professor Dumbledore tells him over and over again that his strength and power are because of his mother’s love for him running through his veins.  This theme is universal – the power of love to overcome evil – we find it everywhere in our culture and it is because it is the truth.  Love really can overcome evil, but only if we are united together in our work and in our devotion to sharing the love of Christ through our actions.  

Have you ever heard the quote “Preach the gospel at all time, and if necessary use words” ?  It is often attributed to St. Francis of Assissi, and its truth is absolute – often our actions are the strongest means to convey the message of Christ’s love for us in the Gospels.  Especially in our media saturated culture when words are becoming so meaningless, actions are more important than ever. 
  
            The movie “Love Actually” follows the love stories of many different people at Christmastime in London.  In it, Hugh Grant plays the fictitious Prime Minister and opens the movie with this quote, as scenes of "normal" (i.e. not actors) people meeting each other at Heathrow Airport play on the screen:

Whenever I get gloomy with the state of the world I think about the arrivals gate at Heathrow Airport.  General opinion’s starting to make out that we live in a world of hatred and greed, but I don’t see that.  Seems to me that love is everywhere.  Often its not particularly dignified or newsworthy, but its always there.  Fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, husbands and wives; boyfriends, girlfriends, old friends.  When the planes hit the twin towers as far as I know none of the phone calls from the people on board were messages of hate or revenge.  They were all messages of love.  If you look for it I’ve got a sneaky feeling you’ll find that love actually is all around.

            Let's be the people in the world helping to spread the love of Christ all around without fear of others, for Christ is in the other.

Alternative or Addition to the Elf

When my brother and I were around the ages obnoxious, and annoying my mother had us to a project during Advent (I think she gets bonus points for coming up with this "pre-Pinterest").  We made a small manger out of cardboard, and cut "straw" out of small pieces of yarn.  The empty manger was put on our television cabinet, with the pile of straw next to it.  

Our task was to fill the manger with straw to prepare it for baby Jesus.  In order to put one small piece of straw in it we had to do something kind and loving for someone else, and in order for it to count, we weren't allowed to tell anyone what we did.

Instead of my mom having to worry about moving an elf every night (I don't have children but I did have an elf in my former Kindergarten classroom, and my fellow staff members can tell you I often forgot to move it/him/her... and often maxed out on excuses on why it hadn't moved) we were sneaking around doing nice things for each other.

I am not against the Elf on the Shelf.  Instead I am for anything that makes children think about others more than they think about themselves.  Doing nice things for others improves behaviors as much or more than thinking they are being watched by an elf every day.  

On Christmas Eve that year we had the joy of seeing the manger overflowing with straw.  Our love and devotion to one another had prepared our hearts, home, and the manger for baby Jesus.  


Tuesday, October 27, 2015

Reason #1,439 We Sing in Worship

Yesterday in Chapel there was no bulletin, just some hymn lyrics, and a hymn number on the board for the closing song.  When I opened the hymnal to #727 for the closing song (we have the new Presbyterian Glory to God hymnals) it was this - - 

 

When I was a rising freshmen in high school I went to Music Camp at Camp Whitman, a Presbyterian summer camp owned and operated by the Presbyteries of Geneva and Genesee Valley in the Fingerlakes region of New York.  It was not my first time at Camp Whitman, but it was my first time at Music Camp.

I am not usually surprised in worship.  I am one of "those" people that scans the whole bulletin when I sit down.  I was surprised Monday.  When the opening chords of "The Servant Song" were played I was awash in sense memories so strong they created positive emotions and feelings in me I had all but forgotten.  
  • I was reminded of beautiful, radiant, wonderful human beings I met that week I learned "The Servant Song" for the very first time (some of whom I am still blessed to be friends with 18 years later).    
  • I could smell the mix of damp leaves, lake water, and campfire smoke that is the essence of Camp Whitman.
Remembering that time that was filled with love and joy so vividly overwhelmed and brought me to tears.

"I will weep when you are weeping
When you laugh I'll laugh with you"